20 Good looking girls…

Everyone have their own thoughts about their life partner, I too have thought about her for some time (full time to be very precise). I got two younger brothers, I always wanted to have a sister. That’s a reason that i have a  lot of lovely sisters around, in college and outside. Whenever i meet a new girl, I check whether she fits my specifications of sisters, if yes i ask her does she like to be my sister, rarely get a no for that. The rest of the girls will be checked against the pre-conditions for friends and life partners.

I think Web is all about meeting people online, there is a good percentage of girls who doesn’t network with people whom they haven’t met and or talked in real life. WTF? Well I’m not like that, I meet at least 2 new people online everyday, talk or chat to them and make an acquaintance. This generates a lot of friends, business leads and after all its good to be surrounded by people you know. In the year 2009 i met more people than i did in my entire 21 years of life. There are friends who call me a Spider, for reasons such as I work on the web and as I’m a good networker. Some girls are don’t network with people whom they don’t know and they have x,y,z reasons for that. I don’t bother about it. Some girls are arrogant and or busy, i rather not to talk to them.

Pre-Conditions for Life Partner
1) She should be smart (Check this out and @kenneyjacob’s tweet on this).
2) Should be techie, need not be a geek.
3) A very good level of understanding is expected, should be someone who understand my crazy  dreams and be with me for all those, she can expect the same for you.
4) She should be able adjust with me. I used to be very short tempered during college, but there girl-friends (note the hyprhen [-] please, its girl-friend, not girlfriend) who were very patient and good listeners. They were able to get rid of my short temper. That made me very adjustable with people around.
5) She should be very romantic as I’m extra romantic.
6) She should be Awesome (Refer How I Met Your Mother)
7) She should be a movie freak like me…
TO BE ADDED SOON…

[Mallu people, are you thinking I’m being like Siddique in ‘Thiruthalvaadi’, The answer NO…]

These are the certain conditions, if she meet these then  only I go forward with other conditions.
Well after being in relationships in college, I have enough reasons to stay single. Askmen.com has gives some interesting reasons to stay single. Read it here…

I’m jealous of
1) Newly wedded couple, as they make me probe myself when am I gonna be with someone like that.
2) Fathers of baby girls, I wanna be like them one day.

Thought of the moment :
“You can celebrate Childrens day only you do it properly on Valentines…”

I was waiting for her reply, there was no response, the gtalk is not showing she is typing anything.  I was getting nervous like anything. I was feeling like I’ve proposed her or something, but believe me this is much tough to decide than that. My heart was beating faster than the cursor blinks on the chat box. Well she was in a confusion actually to say yes or no. For me its like Do Or Die (DOD) situation. I explained her how things will work out; and finally she replied

“Hell Yeah…”

Happiest moment of life, i didn’t expect this to happen in at least 3 years time. So working on it parallel… (20th of September 2009)

Note: This project is one of Thirty-30 Projects of mine…

Quote for the moment : I’m much happier than I was a year ago and it is the result of simply changing the way I think.

It was 7pm. I was eagerly waiting for the call. I was totally tensed. Everything started 2 days back. I was asked to come back from Germany by my parents. My parents arranged a match for me.

2 days back:

I saw the girl’s pic. I really loved it. My mom said “This is the best match we can get for you. So, it’s up to you to impress her and her parents”

Me: “But how and where will I impress them?”

Dad said “We are going to their house after 2 days to meet her and her parents. It’ll be your official date on that day.”

Me: “A date??? Date with her or with her parents? Anyways, how many hours do I have, to impress them?”

Dad: “My son, all you have is 15 minutes to talk to her and 15 minutes for her parents. Needless to say, you also need to impress her brother, grandmother, friends and cousins within that time.”

Me: “Wow…so you expect me to impress a jumbo size family in 30 minutes!!!” (If at all I had that talent I would have impressed 30 girls by now)

Dad: “Be smart, make them flat. Be prepared, don’t get worried.”

I prepared myself. I had three main subjects and some optional ones. I focused on the 3 main subjects – Her mom, dad and Pooja.

I browsed through her orkut profile not once, not twice but a 100 times. (This was my Big Book). I got to know several things about her. She was a member of Black color community. So, I decided to wear a black T shirt on the big day.

I prepared my entire script for the day. I had prepared a James Bond style introduction. (Rao…Narayana Rao…..Satyanarayana Rao….Satyanarayana RaoKarri). Wow, I am loving it. I was all set to make her flat.

Time 4 pm: D-day

We went to her house. It appeared like an examination hall. We sat on the sofa. She came and sat opposite to me. I started feeling tensed. I was very nervous. My time starts now. 30 minutes to go.

“Why don’t you introduce yourselves to each other” her dad said.

She said “Hi, I’m Pooja.” I recollected my James Bond style introduction. Immediately, I stood up and said “Hi, I’m Bond….James Bond…sorry James Rao…no no… its James Karri. Hmm, I am Satya.”

Every one burst into laughter.

I had to change the topic. I recollected my Lesson 2. I took the glass from the table, had a sip and said”Pooja, did you prepare this. It tastes good.” (I know she will be flattered now)

Pooja: “It’s just plain water!!”

Me: “Ohh, may be everything in this house tastes good.”(She giggled)

Her mom interrupted us and said “Have this sweet. Pooja prepared it. It tastes good.”

“Mom we bought these sweets from Pulla Reddy right.” Pooja said innocently.

Her dad changed the topic and asked me” How’s Germany?”

Me: “Yaa, its good uncle”.

Her dad: “What is it famous for?”

Me: “Beer and wine. There are many varieties of wine.” ( Ohh, why did I say that. I don’t drink actually..)

Her dad was shocked. Her Mom asked me “What about people in Germany?”

Me: “German girls are hot. They are gorgeous.” ( Ohh man, what am I doing?)

I hadn’t been so foolish before.

15 minutes to go:

I got permission to talk to her in private. This was the most important part. I had to cover up for whatever I had done so far.

We sat in her room. I said” Please be comfortable. I know it’s little difficult as this is first time for both of us.”

Pooja: “This is not my first time. This is the 2nd time for me. You please be comfortable.”

Me: “I saw your pic. You look really beautiful in that pic.”

Pooja: “So, am I looking the same now?”

Me: “Hmm…to be honest I should say no. You look much more beautiful now.”

We went on talking, talking, talking….

I forgot my script, my preparation and my intention to impress her. It’s just both of us. I felt very comfortable with her.

She said she wanted to do MS but her parents didn’t encourage.

Me: You can pursue MS after our marriage. It’s not just MS. I’ll try to fulfill all your unfulfilled dreams for the last 23 years. It’s your life. You will lead it the way you want it to be. I will be there by you to encourage, to support and to make sure you fulfill all your dreams”.

I told this from the bottom of my heart. This was not preplanned.

Time’s up. It’s time to submit the answer sheet and come out of the examination hall. Our parents decided that they would call each other at 7:30. That’s when the results will be out.

Time 7:30 Pm, The final decision

I was eagerly waiting for the call. I never ever waited like this before. Leave about examination results, not even for Chiranjeevi’s movie.

Finally Pooja’s dad called my dad. He said”Pooja liked Satya a lot. It’s now up to Satya.”

I told dad “Tell them that James Rao also likes Pooja a lot.”

( Thanks )

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A worried woman went to her gynaecologist and said:
‘Doctor, I have a serious problem and desperately need your help! My baby is not even 1 year. old and I’m pregnant again. I don’t want kids so close together.’

So the doctor said: ‘Ok and what do you want me to do?’
She said: ‘I want you to end my pregnancy, and I’m counting on your help with this.’

The doctor thought for a little, and after some silence he said to the lady: ‘I think I have a better solution for your problem. It’s less dangerous for you too.’
She smiled, thinking that the doctor was going to accept her request.

Then he continued: ‘You see, in order for you not to have to take care 2 babies at the same time, let’s kill the one in your arms. This way, you could rest some before the other one is born. If we’re going to kill one of them, it doesn’t matter which one it is. There would be no risk for your body if you chose the one in your arms’

The lady was horrified and said: ‘No doctor! How terrible! It’s a crime to kill a child!’
‘I agree’, the doctor replied. ‘But you seemed to be ok with it, so I thought maybe that was the best solution’. The doctor smiled, realizing that he had made his point.

He convinced the mom

that there is no difference in killing a child that’s already been born and one that’s still in the womb. The crime is the same!

Learn from Yesterday, live for Today, hope for Tomorrow…

WHAT WE LOST AFTER THE PARTITION OF PAKISTAN …

Won’t we miss them???

“Don’t aim to be a lover of a girl, aim to be the father of her Son!!!…” – Alexander Fans.