She and some thoughts

Posted by Niju Mohan  November 16, 2009  10 COMMENTS

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SHE, The One…

Everyone have their own thoughts about their life partner, I too have thought about her for some time (full time to be very precise). I got two younger brothers, I always wanted to have a sister. That’s a reason that i have a  lot of lovely sisters around, in college and outside. Whenever i meet a new girl, I check whether she fits my specifications of sisters, if yes i ask her does she like to be my sister, rarely get a no for that. The rest of the girls will be checked against the pre-conditions for friends and life partners.

I think Web is all about meeting people online, there is a good percentage of girls who doesn’t network with people whom they haven’t met and or talked in real life. WTF? Well I’m not like that, I meet at least 2 new people online everyday, talk or chat to them and make an acquaintance. This generates a lot of friends, business leads and after all its good to be surrounded by people you know. In the year 2009 i met more people than i did in my entire 21 years of life. There are friends who call me a Spider, for reasons such as I work on the web and as I’m a good networker. Some girls are don’t network with people whom they don’t know and they have x,y,z reasons for that. I don’t bother about it. Some girls are arrogant and or busy, i rather not to talk to them.

Pre-Conditions for Life Partner
1) She should be smart (Check this out and @kenneyjacob’s tweet on this).
2) Should be techie, need not be a geek.
3) A very good level of understanding is expected, should be someone who understand my crazy  dreams and be with me for all those, she can expect the same for you.
4) She should be able adjust with me. I used to be very short tempered during college, but there girl-friends (note the hyprhen [-] please, its girl-friend, not girlfriend) who were very patient and good listeners. They were able to get rid of my short temper. That made me very adjustable with people around.
5) She should be very romantic as I’m extra romantic.
6) She should be Awesome (Refer How I Met Your Mother)
7) She should be a movie freak like me…
TO BE ADDED SOON…

[Mallu people, are you thinking I’m being like Siddique in ‘Thiruthalvaadi’, The answer NO…]

These are the certain conditions, if she meet these then  only I go forward with other conditions.
Well after being in relationships in college, I have enough reasons to stay single. Askmen.com has gives some interesting reasons to stay single. Read it here…

I’m jealous of
1) Newly wedded couple, as they make me probe myself when am I gonna be with someone like that.
2) Fathers of baby girls, I wanna be like them one day.

Thought of the moment :
You can celebrate Childrens day only you do it properly on Valentines…

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10 Responses so far.

  1. carla says:

    I think its important to know what you want in a partner and friend. I was told early on to write the qualities in a person down. It looks like you’ve done that. ;)

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  2. NOOP says:

    naice…hunt is on? :P

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  3. Vineeth Jose says:

    Relationships are all about making compromises, the more u compromise, the happier you are.

    There are two extreme ends in a relationship. One is that, you are still seeing or with this person and you are happy that there isnt much communication in between. The other one is that they just cross each other on a home hallway and feel it as romantic, without even talking a word.

    offtopic! just a random thought!

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  4. forex robot says:

    Nice post & nice blog. I love both.

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  6. Remya says:

    Hey Niju,

    Nice to know about your demands out here!! Hopefully you will find your life partner soon….Wishing you luck….Tc.

    Remya

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  7. Hari says:

    Just noticed.

    You’re one person with a LOT of single-desp, like me. And guess what, I noticed that during the yatra too! :D

    Maybe, we should have a conversation! :P

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